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Coping with the loss of a loved one is hard, but you don’t have to do it alone. If you have unanswered questions about the decisions you must make during this difficult time, explore these resources and call Castle Ridge Mortuary at (210) 645-6000.
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The death of a loved one is hard on anyone, but children often have an even more difficult time dealing with the loss of a friend or family member. This video clip discusses the tough question of whether children should attend funerals.
This video suggests presenting attendance as an option, but states that children will usually want to be involved. Ask your child if he would like to be part of the ceremony by contributing his own words or pictures or performing tasks like sitting with the guest book. Preparing a child for what to expect, in terms of the mood and procedure of the ceremony, may also make him or her more comfortable.
If you are coping with the loss of a friend or family member, contact Castle Ridge Mortuary, a full-service mortuary with several locations throughout Texas. Contact us at (210) 645-6000.
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Grief affects everyone differently. Young people may have a particularly hard time dealing with the loss of a family member or friend, especially if they have not experienced such a life-changing event before. Children may find professional grief support helpful, but it’s important that they also receive attention and comfort from their loved ones. Here are some ways you can be supportive in a young family member’s time of need.
Address Your Own Emotions
When experiencing grief, it is easy to become overwhelmed and lose boundaries. Remember that it’s healthy and natural to express sadness and loss with a child, but it is also important to remain a strong and responsible role model as best as possible. Show the child affection and security, reassuring him or her that you’ll get through the grief process together.
Prepare the Child for Changes
For a child, breaking from routine can be overwhelming and make him or her feel powerless and confused. Minimize this response by talking together about the situation, explaining in advance any funeral proceedings and changes in routine or living situation that will occur.
View Mourning as an Opportunity for Connection and Teaching
Communication about the death of a loved one should be honest and direct, and come from a trusted adult. Allow the child to express emotion through art, play, or rituals. Avoid euphemisms like “lost” or “sleep,” as these may confuse the child.
Focus on Positive Memories
Talk about your loved one and keep photos and objects around that will serve as happy reminders of this special person in the child’s life. Remember the good times and emphasize the value of your loved one’s life, relationships, and accomplishments.
The full-service funeral homes of Castle Ridge Mortuary include locations in San Antonio, Austin, Crystal City, Helotes, and Boerne. Whether you’re in the process of pre-need planning, looking for cremation or other funerary services, or seeking grief support after a loss, contact us at (210) 645-6000 today.
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There are many types of casket available; though making this sort of decision can be emotionally trying, understanding your options will help you organize a funeral or memorial service as your loved one would have wished it. Work with your funeral home director to find a solution within your budget that is appropriate for the ceremony your family chooses.
Materials
Caskets can be made of wood, fiberglass, or metal, and there are even biodegradable options. A natural hardwood such as oak, birch, maple, cedar, black walnut, mahogany, or elm is often used in high-end caskets. Cloth-covered caskets are usually made of softwood or pressed wood and are often the least expensive option. Metal caskets can be made of steel, bronze, or copper and may be painted. A heavier metal casket is generally more expensive than its lighter counterpart. You will also have options regarding the interior lining of the casket. Materials are usually selected based on the type of ceremony that will be performed.
Cremations and Ground Burials
For cremations, caskets are designed to be combustible and have light and simple constructions. Caskets used for ground burials tend to be sturdy wood or metal. If there is to be a visitation prior to cremation or burial, a more formal casket may be used, which can sometimes be rented at reduced cost.
Expenses
The casket is often one of the most expensive elements of a funeral. Keep in mind you should not feel pressured to buy the most expensive model in order to honor your loved one’s memory. You can do research before meeting with the professionals at your funeral home and be prepared with a realistic budget in mind.
For all of your needs in this difficult time, trust Castle Ridge Mortuary. We are a full-service funeral home in San Antonio. Call us today at (210) 645-6000 for pre-need mortuary services, crematory services, and more.
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If you wish to learn more about how you can honor the memory of a loved one or how to make arrangements for a pre-need funeral, the following resources should be of assistance to you. For further information, or to start making advanced plans for your funeral, call Castle Ridge Mortuary at (210) 645-6000.
- Moving on after the death of a loved one does not mean forgetting about that person. Read this article for advice on incorporating your loved one’s absence into your everyday life in a healthy and memory-honoring way.
- Learn about the different types of funeral services one can choose at FuneralWise.com.
- This publication from Utah State University is a great resource for those seeking information about preplanning a funeral.
- In this digital age, new and innovative ways to honor our loved ones’ memories have emerged. Read about one of them in this article from Mashable Business.
